Where are you at

 asked that many times. And the one thing that gave me encouragement that it could happen for me, was that I saw other people enjoying financial success. When I looked at some of the people who were successful I saw that they did not quit, like I had at times. And now, years down the road they were enjoying the fruit of their labor.

It’s darkest before the dawn.

This thought has helped me to hold on when things have felt very difficult and I felt like giving up and going home. Because I have found it to be true.

When things seemed to be at the lowest point with my blog and business, with my dating life or with my motivation in life in general something always happened.

Probably quite often because being at that low point forced me to change something in how I did things.

But maybe also because life seems to have some kind of balance if I just keep going. If I just keep taking action instead of giving up and doing nothing then something good always happens.

Seeing this repeat itself strengthened my belief in taking action and to keep going even on rough days or weeks. And it brings some comfort even when things look pretty dark.

Attitudes towards people

Having a winning attitude towards people means that you want to build up people and add value. So you show love to others. You want to enrich them. When you have finished talking to a person, you want that person to feel richer for having been in your presence.

Being friendly, polite, patient and encouraging, whether people are nice or nasty.

It means seeing the positive things in others. And treating them as if it were their birthday - every day. Building them up at every opportunity.
These are great attitudes to strive for

Believe in yourself

Every day brings new experiences that you can add to your learning. The wealth of experience and knowledge you have accumulated over the years, plus the things you have already achieved, will help you accomplish goals that you never even dreamed were possible.

Believe in your ability to do awesome things. Don't worry about how you'll get it right, just start telling yourself that you can reach incredible goals. You can achieve your dreams. Each of us has to start believing that we can. We need to see ourselves as achievers.

When you have that kind of mindset, and a wild idea pops into your mind, you won't say: "I could never".You'll think: "That sounds like a great idea. Why don't I try that?"

Believe in yourself.

Every day brings new experiences that you can add to your learning. The wealth of experience and knowledge you have accumulated over the years, plus the things you have already achieved, will help you accomplish goals that you never even dreamed were possible.

Believe in your ability to do awesome things. Don't worry about how you'll get it right, just start telling yourself that you can reach incredible goals. You can achieve your dreams. Each of us has to start believing that we can. We need to see ourselves as achievers.

When you have that kind of mindset, and a wild idea pops into your mind, you won't say: "I could never".You'll think: "That sounds like a great idea. Why don't I try that?"